…simplicity isnt so simple!
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:08 am, under Uncategorized | 0 Comments
well…how many times have there been occasions…when you badly wanted to speak out but stop your self….?if we ponder over it surely we’ll find quite a few occasions…it mite be anything..not neccessarily…firing off someone or screaming out that you are correct when wrongly blamed…it mite at times be one the most toughest word to say-”sorry”…ooh..yes!this 5 letter word takes…a whole lot of hard work to get out of your mouth!even if you know your wrong…n things can be back to normal with that one appology…it doesnt comE!..this mite even lead to so many things left unsaid…undone….!and a few yrs from now…whe you look back on these incidents there’ll be something that will be hurting u….something not so good about those memories…n then you’ll realise if you could just have said that worD!….things would have been so much diffrnt!…
noT talking like a love guru…but i’ve seen..quite a few relations…going down the drain(no this is not my example)…just because one of the partners couldnt open their heart out to the other…at times it mite be about a small thing you dont like about your partner but..still u dont end up opening your mouth!! these small things add up to the space between…you..and one fine day…its gone…most of the cases changes are so gradual that you dont even realise that you are goin in the wrong path…so many stones remaind unturned jus becos u cant open up….its such a simple thing…but so tough to act on…
personally speaking i’ve been through this condition quite a few times…it maybe with parents or friends…there have been times when..you so badly want to hug them n say how much you love them…but na! it never happens…n you keep cursing yourself for this…!it takes alot of…heart just to walk up to there person you care so much for and tell him a sorry…r something you have burried in the depths of your stupid..thoughts…!it mite be love or hatred…the emotion becomes valueless untill you dont express it…i mean..it makes no sense…being quite!….well…stayin the hostel…these were one the important things i’ve realised…i mean..wen your with a whole bunch off people and theres something you dont like about your friend….you open up and tell it to him…rather than keeping quite and let the distance build untill there comes a time…wen things reach out of hand!
….for cricket lovers!
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:15 am, under Uncategorized | 0 Comments
this is my 1st blog on sports…or lets say the most popular religion in india…”cricket”..as we all know that crickets been a craze all over the country…well..its rare u find an indian..who doesnt no follow cricket…like every other proffesion cricketers are hailed when ever they win and cursed when they loose…unfortunatley our country lacks the pleasure of watchin the game…i mean we cant win every game…this is wat happens when we have alot off expectations from our players…who are considerd as demi-gods all over the country! n over nite they become devils..poor them!…well..comin back to thing that inspired me to post this blog…the Twenty20 WC…where the young indian team…has shocked the nation…i mean..by young i mean…the oldest player bein of 28yrs!n a majority of players being in the mid 20’s its great to see such a side go out wearing indian blues…under a 1st time young captain they have completely shocked us by reaching the semi’s..i guess when the pressure is less…u tend to perform much better i mean..no one expected india to progress any further than the 2nd round..but reaching this far they have made a serious statement…that…the future is bright and hopefully they will bring us some national pride…all they need is some support when ever the chips are down…not goin into the details like fielding etc…but the main reason for the team to reach so far is just becos…the self belief!!to beat an unbeaten team in their home soil…that to so convincingly is a great feat achieved…i guess thats what we..all cricket lovers are looking for…a fighting team with alot of self confidence!..way 2 go india!! keep it up!
little things give u away…
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 2:40 pm, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
okay..now i’ve got this alot…frm ppl..that i only blog about love,heart breaks etc…well..ya they r correct but frankly i mean…isnt that suppose 2 be the best thing happenin 2 you at this time of ur life…i mean…apart frm ur career success…not 2 be forgettin thats like tha most imprtant part of ur life…as they say in mumbai…neva wait for trains n gals….but that doesnt take all those special feelins away frm the 1s..who’ve affectd your life 2 a certain extent…but then as time goes on…things change jus lyk sandunes in a desert…..n so do your priorities…not 2 be sound 2 technical…but there are basically 2 tpyes of priority…one wich are fixed…n other which keep changin with time…well the fixed ones are the ones lyk..u no..makin ur parents happy..work studies…bla..bla…
and the variable ones are lyk..ur..changing love intrsts(tat is if it does change)….
eva been in a situation wen sum1s told or lets say given u an advice 2 act on sumtin….or say solve a prob…n u trust the person,so u take the advice well..it pays off times…n at times it doesnt….but at the end of the day…all wat matters is how happy are u with urself….i mean…u mite b bangin ur head against the wall or fallin off the cliff…but..if ur happy with it great!…atleast you dont hav any1 else 2 blame about…i mean…ya u take their advice….but act on it…only wen ur happy..cos..taz wat we all run behind for…the feelin of lyin on ur bed…n gettin that peaceful sleep is the best feelin….!hm…a common sayin there again…stays true…”happiness is not a small thing but…small things give ya happiness”(abit modified though)…its funny how small things can either make or break ur day for u…i strongly believe that its upon n individual 2keep himself happy or sad!most ppl i guess lack in self believe or the confidence tingie….wen it comes to takin decisions about your ownself….its so easy 2 preach….but one hell of a thing 2 practise..!i mean… u givin advice is simple….but most of the times when ur stuck in the same position…of crisis…u jus tend 2 falter….!!man!! hardships teach u so much….one fall flat on ur face gives ur a graduate degree…on hw 2 go about certain things!!but its upon us how much we learn….sum ppl jus pass, sum cum out wit flyin colors…while most of us…jus flunk!!nah…its not easy 2 learn the lesson of life the hard way!!
ppl tell me…gud!nothins happend bad 2 me….well thats nice…n hope nothin happens 2…but durin the later stages…wen u do hav 2 face sumthin tuff…ur previous lessons give u the support 2 stand against the odds….i mean…wats the fun of lyf u dont hav spice in it!?hw wud u realise the sweetness of standin up….if u neva fall!?lifes the best teacher…its jus tat we hav 2 be a gud student so as to sail on n on in the ocean of..prbs n challenges….agree..not every one passes thru! but its better off goin down tryin….rather than jus…waitin 2 sink..or get thrown away by the wind!!
the love of hatin sum1
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 7:24 am, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
ya she broke ur heart..but its been ages now…but still u cant forget n to an extent forgive…duh! ur a dumb-ass!!oh plz…i mean….u keep ponderin over tha whole incident jus 2 realise that its been 99 mistakes frm her..n..”1″frm ur side…but…wait a minute…guess whose bein blamed more….u!!bingo!! jus cos…u refreshd hidden wounds…relived your so call stupid moment!! n one fine day you let her know tat…c’mon…its dusted!! for heavens sake..give me a brk!…u wake up….frm nowhere n go on and fire her…..ahan…jus cos u…stil lyk her…nah…cant be…i mean…how can u lyk sum1 whos brkn ur heart so mercilessly…doesnt sound sense…hm…it neva does…..but still y do u do this…jus cos ur still hurt..hm…funny…i mean…how can u stil be hurt its been months…now…days hav flown by…loads of new things…dam even the presidents hav changed!! but not ur feelins for her!! jus cos…shez given u a few…special moments..to cherish is it?! or lets reframe it..she has shown you the glimer hope of achievin ur so called”perfect moments”…hmm….cant help it…wait a minute is it that no1 else has cum into ur life…i mean…it can be so that ur jus gettin back 2 her..all cos u…dont hav any1 else..mayb sum1 else wud..help….hm…no!….no1 else is fit enough 2 make it rite!! its one of those helpless feelins of yours…wen ur on a boat in the middle of the ocean with a rowin stick..jus keep goin were the currents in the ocean take u…n then wen u refrsh ur wounds….ur the one who ends up on the loosin side..!!bad day….n..many other stupid tots u go thru…!!u so badly wish 2 go back and erase the memories of her..!!but…wait….no…u dont! jus cos those few…special moments are jus worth all wat u goin thru now….its a fact….”you dont realise love is a game…untill u end up on the loosin side”..but i still feel ppl who are so fragile hrtd….shudnt jus fall into the whole…datin scene…cos they tend 2move…a few paces quicker than they are suppose…2…!!
The loosin battle
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 11:47 pm, under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
there are days you want 2 jus value things around you be happy bot the tings you hav….praise ppl….thank god…for givin u such a great frnd,family…etc….you feel…elated..smiles all around…even..your stupid watch man gets smiling gud mrnin from you….ordinary weather becomes romantic and the irritatin next door aunty is well answerd.
its funny how ones own prespective can change the world around ones ownself…at times it feels that we can easily choose 2 either be happy or sad….on the contrary…sometimes things jus hit you in an instant…..hm…love takes it own effect so quickly yet so smoothly that you dont even realise that your a diff person in no time…hungers gone…so many small things add up…2a big change…theres alwys sumtin bout bein happy,2long the fear of loosin it….the fear of ur dreams bein squashed in minutes….this does happen it surely does…jus wen u realise that ur dreams are over,you so badly wished you hadnt lived on that elated dream platform of urs…u so badly wish that you had never planned all those stupid irrelavent “perfect moments”…cos even wen u planin them you no they are never goin 2 happen…but still you but attach so much of an emotional price tag to them that once their gone you fallin down like a sinkin ship…oh boy o boy!….”the sinkin ship feelin!”….the time wen u feel the whole world around us goin haywire!! bizzare…loosin your cool..ur appetite…and the most important of all ur common sense…is on sick feelin…man!!its so dumb 2 live with the feelin that everythin your doin is wrong but…you hav not option but to deal with it…..dont no bot others but in my case wen m out off it…i does make u feel lyk u’ve exercised tha most buggin muscle n the most emotionally powerful muscle of your body- the heart….and made is much stronger for another battle…hm…the weird things your heart makes you do…are as unexplained as any other confusin NASA discovery…
but then i guess it all upon an individual…how he/she deals with it….its a loosin battle….but all wat matters is how close can u get 2 winning…..a loosin battle!!
