simple!!
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 7:29 pm, under Uncategorized | 0 Comments
suprising how ur views about ppl change so quickly…it happens so regularly that
you begin to wonder is it them or is it you??it is tough to admit ur own mistakes but and then end of the day wen you realise ur own mistake it does give u a feelin of content..nah..its not directly implyin to me..but i guess it goes generally with everyone…maybe its happier to realise that you are wrong than know that the other person isnt that good…simplicity as they is the hardest the thing…still its called simple..lolz..n yea another thought i picked up is that the advantage of being a pessimist that either your constantly proved correct or get pleasent suprises…as we all know how much we see around us every single person is so distinct from each other…and i strongly believe that u certainly dont need to go through a certain incident or experience just to be able enough to deal with it…bein with diff ppl teaches you so much..and trust me if u look at it positively it will surely make u feel good i no…everyone is a bit religious and every religion tells u to forgive and let go small things…but honestly none of us follow the whole thing…frankly speaking i feel once if you get to that mode..things change so drastically..everything depends on us..and the way we take things…oh..plz its not a huge ask…jus a few small changes here n there…can jus end up makin us much happier and content..after all thats what all we strive for…isnt it?
..ur story?
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 11:22 am, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
theres this one incident that hits my mind pretty often...once i
was travelling to gujrat via the train....n as usual..i landed
up..amidst a typical...gujju family...and yes...no hard feelins(as i
am half gujju 2)..most or lets say all gujju females are gossip
queens...i mean if there was ever a guiness record for gossips n
baseless talks...m sure gujju females..wud..certainly break
them!..ok comin back 2 the point when i got in to the train..the
gujju family of 3-mom,daughter(ya! she was cute)..n an old
dad..were discussin tha cute lukin gals marriage thingi...initially
i was not bothered listenin to their chats ..although i couldnt
avoid..as they were 2 loud..so i jus turned on my mp3 player..but
after while...i couldnt help but listen 2 them...n yes..the whole
conversation was a whole lot of fun...as we all know this common
trend in gujju family is that a guy or girl from abroad comes down
for bride/bridegroom huntin..n most of the times..they guy or tha
girl frm abroad(usa in this case) ends up gettin a gud catch..in
this case the cute luking gal...who i couldnt help but checkout
couple of times was gettin engaged to this guy...(sum
jignesh,dharmesh..etc..gujju name)n they had just met in
mumbai..acc to them the whole thing turned up 2 to be well...but
then again typical hindi filmy characters..lyk a vamp masi..n
irritating dadi did exist..as i came 2 know all this..(there again
they were 2 loud so couldnt stop myself frm overhearing them)..i
finally stopped thinking about how cute that gal was..n started
wonderin hows she feelin about the whole thing..its hard 2 imagine
what u go through wen ur about 2 marry a stranger..or lets a
guy..whos jus got big bucks(Mr.Gujju-USA)..n a decent family
background..she wasnt to sure herself...i could see her..ponderin
over her future...life..m sure it mite be one diff feelin..her
parents..seem 2 be telling how to go about life...work..be
nice..obey ur monster...aa..sorry..mother-in-law...she was quitely
agreeinn...(i told u..she was cute ;)...this whole chat lasted for
almost 3 hours untill..they slept..i mean...sometimes i feel ppl so
easily decide over the most significant decisions of their
lives!jus cos the guys rich doesnt me hez gud..but then i
guess..thats what arrange marriage is like...eva thought how is it
goin to be in your case...???then again the same funda comes to
use..the more u think about anything the more confused u get about
it...but i personally..feel..wateva is it..arrange or love
marriage...most important part of is to know the person
well...after all ur goin 2spendin rest of life with him/her.....wat say?
…dreamz….
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 1:57 pm, under Uncategorized | 0 Comments
ever dreamt of sumthin almost everyday….?ever wanted sumthin so bad that every time u
think of it…you get pumped!?there are so many things we jus wish that if could it be ours
but cant really have….although wat u want isnt that unrealistic…every time u think of
it….u tell to urself that no matter wat one day you’ll work really hard on it to achieve
wat you always wanted to…but then again as they say..its easier said that done…well i
dont know bot others but in my case its lyk…everytime i put my foot down n think hard or
lets say take a few steps towards…it….the whole thing seems so not..happening..i
guess..as they say the hardest part of anything is starting the whole stuff…but then again
u feel wen you mite get the whole ting done the desire…or the “fizz”as we call it…mite
jus go…
i guess there are sumthins…which jus hav to be a dream all you life…get up everyday of
ur life jus think that you’ll do them sumday…and as usual…end them with the same
feel..that…”na…its not possible”.. its jus goin to the same regular you…even wen you
turn 60 or sumthing…maybe the pleasure of living with the feelin of achievin ur dreams is
much more than achieving it…..
