touched..
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 11:21 pm, under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
As one of my previous blogs read you only feel lucky only after you look down on people who arent as lucky or happy as your are.
this small story when i heard for the 1st time was emotionally touched.i was in a small city of gujrat when i came across this small family of 3.
mom,dad and a 20sumthing kid.the parents when i first saw them theylooked like the kids grand parents.i was abit suprised but then i dint pay much heed to it.after the meeting got over my aunt who was with me started to tell me about this family.apparently this kid was sum kind of miracle kid,and due to some medical problems in one of their parents(dint go2 tat u know hw embarassin it get 2ask such questions,not tat i wasnt curious)they couldnt have a kid for long,even the docs had given up.
but as we all know the greatest thing that we indians have is immense faith.be it for a world cup cricket victory,a miracle , big dreams u name it n its there.similarly this mother although bein a muslim went to every religious spot(a good quality i really apreciate i.e.respect for all religions)for more than a decade without any response. but still nothing happend.everytime she went to pray her eyes were all wet askin this question to god “I havnt done anything worng to anyone but why is it that you arent listenin 2 me..!”.
finally after almost 20 yrs of their marriage she got pregnant.its even hard 2 imagine the whole wave of happiness that mite have over taken them at that time.to top up the whole thing was that the delivery was normal and they had a boy..a very healthy one.
as i mentioned before the miracle kid was brilliant in studies and a quick learner,but the naughtiness which is an adorable charecteristic of any kid was very prominent in him.he was hyper active as most of the 3-4yrs old are but the bad part was that his mom wasnt all that well after the delivery,the old age delivery had caused some health probs for her so couldnt walk that fast,i.e not able 2 catch up with the kid .
now another touching part of this whole incident is that when ever the mom used 2 scold the kid for his mistakes the kid used 2 come next 2 her mom get a stick and give it 2 her mom sayin that “mom i made a mistake,your unhappy na?beat me!”..even my aunt was overwhelemd wen she said this..and she also mentioned that the mom used 2 literally cry wen her 3 yr old blessed child wud do such a thing..and now she proudly says..not only god has gifted me a child but he his the best son i could have ever asked for..i dont why i am writting this but the whole thing did touch me at that time..the light air had jus warmed up with the moist of emotion and alot of thoughts goin here n there..i guess miracles 2 happen 2 gud ppl after..all!!
to be or not to be…
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:37 pm, under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
well..all of us at some time or the other have sat down and wondered..wheater or not is it the same old me..or lets say do we actually behave the way we actually are?..its human to err…said sum famous fellow…well its also human for a person 2 point out mistakes of others before he/she does of his ownself..but still at an instant wen a friend or even a person you know pretty well begins to behave as some whoe he/she is not…and not only that..things that are against your ethics or..moral values are considered stupid and immature u begin to wonder wheather is it..actually you or the ppl around..you…most of us end up bein someone whoe we arent actaully jus becos we think the world(that genrally doesnt gives a shit)..will treat us differently..i dont if i an rite or wrong..but i’ve always felt being yourself is the best way to..but most of us..wen we end up acting differently..find it completely..correct and live with the fact that..thers nothin wrong about..this is wen..i feel..thers got to be some serious..re-thinking to be done…no ones perfect and never will be..but i feel jus that little effort to try and improve ourseleves..rather than behavin someone who you are not..is the right way to go about things.i mean at the end of the day all wat you want is to lay back and satisfied that you have been yourself..wats the point of portrayin someone who arent!
its not about ones ownself when u see others behavin like this..then u begin to wonder..wats real and wats not..this is wen u feel..you or even that other person is two faced! feels like and insult..but its the bitter truth that we are quite content with..i strongly believe..when a person things..thers nothin leaft to improve in him..is the time..wen he has to do some serious re-thinkin about…i know i mite have not got the nod’s from many of you..but then..isnt it valid to pay some heed to the fact that..bein yourself is the right way to be..and finally you can neva accomplish tha task of makin everyone happy…so why not be content..by atleast make ones ownself happy?
