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Posted by kunalshetty1 in 11:22 am, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
theres this one incident that hits my mind pretty often...once i
was travelling to gujrat via the train....n as usual..i landed
up..amidst a typical...gujju family...and yes...no hard feelins(as i
am half gujju 2)..most or lets say all gujju females are gossip
queens...i mean if there was ever a guiness record for gossips n
baseless talks...m sure gujju females..wud..certainly break
them!..ok comin back 2 the point when i got in to the train..the
gujju family of 3-mom,daughter(ya! she was cute)..n an old
dad..were discussin tha cute lukin gals marriage thingi...initially
i was not bothered listenin to their chats ..although i couldnt
avoid..as they were 2 loud..so i jus turned on my mp3 player..but
after while...i couldnt help but listen 2 them...n yes..the whole
conversation was a whole lot of fun...as we all know this common
trend in gujju family is that a guy or girl from abroad comes down
for bride/bridegroom huntin..n most of the times..they guy or tha
girl frm abroad(usa in this case) ends up gettin a gud catch..in
this case the cute luking gal...who i couldnt help but checkout
couple of times was gettin engaged to this guy...(sum
jignesh,dharmesh..etc..gujju name)n they had just met in
mumbai..acc to them the whole thing turned up 2 to be well...but
then again typical hindi filmy characters..lyk a vamp masi..n
irritating dadi did exist..as i came 2 know all this..(there again
they were 2 loud so couldnt stop myself frm overhearing them)..i
finally stopped thinking about how cute that gal was..n started
wonderin hows she feelin about the whole thing..its hard 2 imagine
what u go through wen ur about 2 marry a stranger..or lets a
guy..whos jus got big bucks(Mr.Gujju-USA)..n a decent family
background..she wasnt to sure herself...i could see her..ponderin
over her future...life..m sure it mite be one diff feelin..her
parents..seem 2 be telling how to go about life...work..be
nice..obey ur monster...aa..sorry..mother-in-law...she was quitely
agreeinn...(i told u..she was cute ;)...this whole chat lasted for
almost 3 hours untill..they slept..i mean...sometimes i feel ppl so
easily decide over the most significant decisions of their
lives!jus cos the guys rich doesnt me hez gud..but then i
guess..thats what arrange marriage is like...eva thought how is it
goin to be in your case...???then again the same funda comes to
use..the more u think about anything the more confused u get about
it...but i personally..feel..wateva is it..arrange or love
marriage...most important part of is to know the person
well...after all ur goin 2spendin rest of life with him/her.....wat say?
…dreamz….
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 1:57 pm, under Uncategorized | No Comments
ever dreamt of sumthin almost everyday….?ever wanted sumthin so bad that every time u
think of it…you get pumped!?there are so many things we jus wish that if could it be ours
but cant really have….although wat u want isnt that unrealistic…every time u think of
it….u tell to urself that no matter wat one day you’ll work really hard on it to achieve
wat you always wanted to…but then again as they say..its easier said that done…well i
dont know bot others but in my case its lyk…everytime i put my foot down n think hard or
lets say take a few steps towards…it….the whole thing seems so not..happening..i
guess..as they say the hardest part of anything is starting the whole stuff…but then again
u feel wen you mite get the whole ting done the desire…or the “fizz”as we call it…mite
jus go…
i guess there are sumthins…which jus hav to be a dream all you life…get up everyday of
ur life jus think that you’ll do them sumday…and as usual…end them with the same
feel..that…”na…its not possible”.. its jus goin to the same regular you…even wen you
turn 60 or sumthing…maybe the pleasure of living with the feelin of achievin ur dreams is
much more than achieving it…..
the beginin of a new end…
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 5:29 pm, under Uncategorized | No Comments
well….its been a while…i’ve written…not becos i havnt had anythin to blog about but its jus cos i havnt got the time…anyws enuf of my stories…
my best buddy and i are at a stage where our futures are takin us away from us..not that i am gettin all senti or somthin but its just the thought of seperating from ur best pal..that puts you to thought….suddenly things seem to be a bit diffrnt you end u fighting less…and cherishing the old moments…this doesnt directly imply to me here…i dont know if its the same with everyone…but as u get closer to the end..and start seeing a new beginin….the options jus seem to rise up rapidly…i mean..couple of months earlier things looked more simpler than they are now..and wil look more complex as you get closer to them..i guess this is all the part of the growin process….feels like yesterday when u used to play around the house area….all..tension free..sulking or removing excuses not to go to school…and now you are takin the most important decisions of your life…they say the more you think about a specific thing…the more u get..confused…but then this certainly isnt a solution…
everyone of us lands up in dilemas..sooner or later…most of…us..jus ask our best buddies or some one more reliable and bank on their own decisions…while some of them just go about things as they feel..lyk..without payin much heed to their thoughts…wouldnt call them dumb….but certainly not wise…the whole problem of banking on some one elses decision is that you end up…not being satisfyd at the end…i mean…after all wat u want is at the end of the day is how content you are wit you own self..even if ur bangin your end on the wall but are doin it at your own call…it does give a sense of satisfaction…sumtimes..i feel…i am becomin to philosophical…its certainly something i am tryin to pretend ..
….yet again!
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yes time’s passed..things have changed..n you meet new..ppl but as they say some things jus refuse to leave you..your same stupid…self.. which again makes you jump the gun..at times you begin to wonder..if destinys targetin you..the instances it has given up you are too many to count on2hands!again you be sweet to a person whose jus not bothered..n yet again you feel lyk you’ve been emotionally used!god!is this eva goin to stop..
…sum things..live forever…
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:34 am, under Uncategorized | No Comments
this is one of those things which i always wanted to blog about…that is hostel life…spendin almost half a decade as hostel life teaches…alot of things…apart frm adjustin with ppl…life
…conditions etc…it also gives u a gud amount of self
confidence…that u can survive….in tough conditions on ur
own…okay…apart from the hardships n all the adjustment…shit…the
major factor that comes up in your hostel life is a whole lot off
fun….loads of things that u could hav never imagined u would have
done…another interesting thing that comes along is sweet memories of
meetin alot of new ppl…learnin about them…and above all…makin sum
close frnds…talkin about frnds..i wud like 2 mention this one frnd of
mine…who…is a complete timepass….in the sense no only do u get to
pull his legs free of cost..cos he does his own damage…but he also
provides with u some of the most funniest moments in your life…as
usual…the discussion starts of with sumthin simple n less
controversial…untill it takes a turn 2more arguable
topics…like…religion…mm…..beliefs…n…ya….the all time
fav…”ghosts”…
well in case my frnd..jus loves arguin on things he doesnt hav
knowledge about…n thats wen…things get more intrsting…jus as…u
know that he is wrong and start opposin him…he comes up with one of
the most stupidest(at that time hilarious)counter arguements…that u
jus can…help but laugh till u fall of the chair…there were time
were we had 2 tell him 2 stop…cos our tummies were achin!:P…not 2
be metioning alot…i can think of one of his funny
remarks….as…we..as indians know…wen “gandhiji” was shot..his last
few words before death were…”hey ram”..*(gods name)..but my frnd here..has diff…view about it…according to him…”gandhiji”said…”harami”*(hindi slang meanin rascal)…before he died…and people near him…modulated the truth..jus bcos…they dint want his name 2 be spoiled…n yea…wen he said this…all we had 2 do was…to start laughin…till tears came out….at times u wonder…wen your in a group…u end up laughin on the most silly jokes…but then again..they are alot of fun….small things give u so much of pleasure…even wen there is a tensed exam atmosphere around n sumthin stupid happens…the whole…mood becomes light…wen u share a good laugh…times change…places change….but all that u hav with u…are sweet memories..2 cherish…:)
…simplicity isnt so simple!
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:08 am, under Uncategorized | No Comments
well…how many times have there been occasions…when you badly wanted to speak out but stop your self….?if we ponder over it surely we’ll find quite a few occasions…it mite be anything..not neccessarily…firing off someone or screaming out that you are correct when wrongly blamed…it mite at times be one the most toughest word to say-”sorry”…ooh..yes!this 5 letter word takes…a whole lot of hard work to get out of your mouth!even if you know your wrong…n things can be back to normal with that one appology…it doesnt comE!..this mite even lead to so many things left unsaid…undone….!and a few yrs from now…whe you look back on these incidents there’ll be something that will be hurting u….something not so good about those memories…n then you’ll realise if you could just have said that worD!….things would have been so much diffrnt!…
noT talking like a love guru…but i’ve seen..quite a few relations…going down the drain(no this is not my example)…just because one of the partners couldnt open their heart out to the other…at times it mite be about a small thing you dont like about your partner but..still u dont end up opening your mouth!! these small things add up to the space between…you..and one fine day…its gone…most of the cases changes are so gradual that you dont even realise that you are goin in the wrong path…so many stones remaind unturned jus becos u cant open up….its such a simple thing…but so tough to act on…
personally speaking i’ve been through this condition quite a few times…it maybe with parents or friends…there have been times when..you so badly want to hug them n say how much you love them…but na! it never happens…n you keep cursing yourself for this…!it takes alot of…heart just to walk up to there person you care so much for and tell him a sorry…r something you have burried in the depths of your stupid..thoughts…!it mite be love or hatred…the emotion becomes valueless untill you dont express it…i mean..it makes no sense…being quite!….well…stayin the hostel…these were one the important things i’ve realised…i mean..wen your with a whole bunch off people and theres something you dont like about your friend….you open up and tell it to him…rather than keeping quite and let the distance build untill there comes a time…wen things reach out of hand!
….for cricket lovers!
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 10:15 am, under Uncategorized | No Comments
this is my 1st blog on sports…or lets say the most popular religion in india…”cricket”..as we all know that crickets been a craze all over the country…well..its rare u find an indian..who doesnt no follow cricket…like every other proffesion cricketers are hailed when ever they win and cursed when they loose…unfortunatley our country lacks the pleasure of watchin the game…i mean we cant win every game…this is wat happens when we have alot off expectations from our players…who are considerd as demi-gods all over the country! n over nite they become devils..poor them!…well..comin back to thing that inspired me to post this blog…the Twenty20 WC…where the young indian team…has shocked the nation…i mean..by young i mean…the oldest player bein of 28yrs!n a majority of players being in the mid 20’s its great to see such a side go out wearing indian blues…under a 1st time young captain they have completely shocked us by reaching the semi’s..i guess when the pressure is less…u tend to perform much better i mean..no one expected india to progress any further than the 2nd round..but reaching this far they have made a serious statement…that…the future is bright and hopefully they will bring us some national pride…all they need is some support when ever the chips are down…not goin into the details like fielding etc…but the main reason for the team to reach so far is just becos…the self belief!!to beat an unbeaten team in their home soil…that to so convincingly is a great feat achieved…i guess thats what we..all cricket lovers are looking for…a fighting team with alot of self confidence!..way 2 go india!! keep it up!
little things give u away…
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 2:40 pm, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
okay..now i’ve got this alot…frm ppl..that i only blog about love,heart breaks etc…well..ya they r correct but frankly i mean…isnt that suppose 2 be the best thing happenin 2 you at this time of ur life…i mean…apart frm ur career success…not 2 be forgettin thats like tha most imprtant part of ur life…as they say in mumbai…neva wait for trains n gals….but that doesnt take all those special feelins away frm the 1s..who’ve affectd your life 2 a certain extent…but then as time goes on…things change jus lyk sandunes in a desert…..n so do your priorities…not 2 be sound 2 technical…but there are basically 2 tpyes of priority…one wich are fixed…n other which keep changin with time…well the fixed ones are the ones lyk..u no..makin ur parents happy..work studies…bla..bla…
and the variable ones are lyk..ur..changing love intrsts(tat is if it does change)….
eva been in a situation wen sum1s told or lets say given u an advice 2 act on sumtin….or say solve a prob…n u trust the person,so u take the advice well..it pays off times…n at times it doesnt….but at the end of the day…all wat matters is how happy are u with urself….i mean…u mite b bangin ur head against the wall or fallin off the cliff…but..if ur happy with it great!…atleast you dont hav any1 else 2 blame about…i mean…ya u take their advice….but act on it…only wen ur happy..cos..taz wat we all run behind for…the feelin of lyin on ur bed…n gettin that peaceful sleep is the best feelin….!hm…a common sayin there again…stays true…”happiness is not a small thing but…small things give ya happiness”(abit modified though)…its funny how small things can either make or break ur day for u…i strongly believe that its upon n individual 2keep himself happy or sad!most ppl i guess lack in self believe or the confidence tingie….wen it comes to takin decisions about your ownself….its so easy 2 preach….but one hell of a thing 2 practise..!i mean… u givin advice is simple….but most of the times when ur stuck in the same position…of crisis…u jus tend 2 falter….!!man!! hardships teach u so much….one fall flat on ur face gives ur a graduate degree…on hw 2 go about certain things!!but its upon us how much we learn….sum ppl jus pass, sum cum out wit flyin colors…while most of us…jus flunk!!nah…its not easy 2 learn the lesson of life the hard way!!
ppl tell me…gud!nothins happend bad 2 me….well thats nice…n hope nothin happens 2…but durin the later stages…wen u do hav 2 face sumthin tuff…ur previous lessons give u the support 2 stand against the odds….i mean…wats the fun of lyf u dont hav spice in it!?hw wud u realise the sweetness of standin up….if u neva fall!?lifes the best teacher…its jus tat we hav 2 be a gud student so as to sail on n on in the ocean of..prbs n challenges….agree..not every one passes thru! but its better off goin down tryin….rather than jus…waitin 2 sink..or get thrown away by the wind!!
the love of hatin sum1
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 7:24 am, under Uncategorized | 2 Comments
ya she broke ur heart..but its been ages now…but still u cant forget n to an extent forgive…duh! ur a dumb-ass!!oh plz…i mean….u keep ponderin over tha whole incident jus 2 realise that its been 99 mistakes frm her..n..”1″frm ur side…but…wait a minute…guess whose bein blamed more….u!!bingo!! jus cos…u refreshd hidden wounds…relived your so call stupid moment!! n one fine day you let her know tat…c’mon…its dusted!! for heavens sake..give me a brk!…u wake up….frm nowhere n go on and fire her…..ahan…jus cos u…stil lyk her…nah…cant be…i mean…how can u lyk sum1 whos brkn ur heart so mercilessly…doesnt sound sense…hm…it neva does…..but still y do u do this…jus cos ur still hurt..hm…funny…i mean…how can u stil be hurt its been months…now…days hav flown by…loads of new things…dam even the presidents hav changed!! but not ur feelins for her!! jus cos…shez given u a few…special moments..to cherish is it?! or lets reframe it..she has shown you the glimer hope of achievin ur so called”perfect moments”…hmm….cant help it…wait a minute is it that no1 else has cum into ur life…i mean…it can be so that ur jus gettin back 2 her..all cos u…dont hav any1 else..mayb sum1 else wud..help….hm…no!….no1 else is fit enough 2 make it rite!! its one of those helpless feelins of yours…wen ur on a boat in the middle of the ocean with a rowin stick..jus keep goin were the currents in the ocean take u…n then wen u refrsh ur wounds….ur the one who ends up on the loosin side..!!bad day….n..many other stupid tots u go thru…!!u so badly wish 2 go back and erase the memories of her..!!but…wait….no…u dont! jus cos those few…special moments are jus worth all wat u goin thru now….its a fact….”you dont realise love is a game…untill u end up on the loosin side”..but i still feel ppl who are so fragile hrtd….shudnt jus fall into the whole…datin scene…cos they tend 2move…a few paces quicker than they are suppose…2…!!
The loosin battle
Posted by kunalshetty1 in 11:47 pm, under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
there are days you want 2 jus value things around you be happy bot the tings you hav….praise ppl….thank god…for givin u such a great frnd,family…etc….you feel…elated..smiles all around…even..your stupid watch man gets smiling gud mrnin from you….ordinary weather becomes romantic and the irritatin next door aunty is well answerd.
its funny how ones own prespective can change the world around ones ownself…at times it feels that we can easily choose 2 either be happy or sad….on the contrary…sometimes things jus hit you in an instant…..hm…love takes it own effect so quickly yet so smoothly that you dont even realise that your a diff person in no time…hungers gone…so many small things add up…2a big change…theres alwys sumtin bout bein happy,2long the fear of loosin it….the fear of ur dreams bein squashed in minutes….this does happen it surely does…jus wen u realise that ur dreams are over,you so badly wished you hadnt lived on that elated dream platform of urs…u so badly wish that you had never planned all those stupid irrelavent “perfect moments”…cos even wen u planin them you no they are never goin 2 happen…but still you but attach so much of an emotional price tag to them that once their gone you fallin down like a sinkin ship…oh boy o boy!….”the sinkin ship feelin!”….the time wen u feel the whole world around us goin haywire!! bizzare…loosin your cool..ur appetite…and the most important of all ur common sense…is on sick feelin…man!!its so dumb 2 live with the feelin that everythin your doin is wrong but…you hav not option but to deal with it…..dont no bot others but in my case wen m out off it…i does make u feel lyk u’ve exercised tha most buggin muscle n the most emotionally powerful muscle of your body- the heart….and made is much stronger for another battle…hm…the weird things your heart makes you do…are as unexplained as any other confusin NASA discovery…
but then i guess it all upon an individual…how he/she deals with it….its a loosin battle….but all wat matters is how close can u get 2 winning…..a loosin battle!!
